Living Around Family: Does It Really Matter in Shaping you

Imagine growing up surrounded by family members—uncles, aunts, cousins, and siblings forming the backdrop of your everyday life. Would such environment shape your sense of self, your values, or even how you judge others? This is exactly what researchers Sng, Choi, and Ackerman (2024) set out to explore in their groundbreaking study.

They introduced the concept of ecological relatedness by drawing insights from behavioral ecology, —the prevalence of family relatives in one’s environment—and conducted six insightful studies to reveal its psychological effects.

What the Studies Reveal

The research, conducted across diverse cultural settings—the United States, Ghana, and the Philippines—uncovered compelling evidence of how family proximity influences our psychology. Participants were either studied in real-life settings with varying levels of family presence or placed in experimental scenarios imagining such environments. Across both approaches, consistent patterns emerged:

1. 1. Stronger Pro-Group Behavior
      People living in family-rich environments displayed a higher willingness to engage in extreme pro-group actions, such as supporting their country in times of conflict. This reflects a deep alignment with group-oriented values.
   2. Morally Stronger Judgments
      Family-dense ecologies were associated with harsher moral evaluations, particularly on taboo topics like sibling incest, reinforcing the importance of protecting group cohesion.
   3. Greater Interdependence
      Participants with high ecological relatedness were more likely to define themselves in terms of relationships with others. This interdependent self-concept contrasted with the independent self-views often seen in family-scarce environments.
   4. Localized Trust and Connection
      While participants trusted and connected more with nearby groups, such as neighbors and local communities, their affinity for distant groups, including foreigners, declined.
   5. Punishment of Antisocial Behavior
      People in family-rich settings exhibited stronger support for punitive measures, such as endorsing the life penalty for cruelty, highlighting the importance of social harmony in such environments.

Cultural and Social Implications

This research offers a lens through which to view cultural differences. Environments where family ties are prevalent tend to foster communal values, moral vigilance, and a stronger sense of local trust. In contrast, family-scarce settings may encourage more individualistic and globally inclusive perspectives.

Limitations and Open Questions

While the findings are robust, the study acknowledges certain limitations:

• • Long-Term Impacts: The research does not examine how these psychological effects evolve over time due to a lack of longitudinal data.
  • Behavioral Observations: The studies relied on self-reported attitudes rather than direct behavioral measures.
  • Family Dynamics: The specific type of family relatives in one’s environment—whether younger or older—was not distinguished, leaving room for future exploration.

Furthermore, the researchers note that under extreme resource scarcity, the generally prosocial outcomes observed in family-rich settings might give way to heightened competition.

Conclusion

The study of ecological relatedness provides a fresh perspective on how family dynamics shape psychology and culture. By highlighting the interplay between environment and behavior, this work offers valuable tools for understanding a range of social phenomena—from moral judgments to cultural values.

This research reminds us that the people around us—especially family—profoundly influence how we navigate the world. As we continue to explore these dynamics, one thing is clear: our psychological landscapes are deeply intertwined with the ecological ties we inherit and nurture.